Committed, Exclusive and Monogamous

Do people have their own label? Set a standard and criteria in choosing partner in life? Yes, I do. Back then I dont label. I just go with the flow. Whoever came into my life I live with it. Love them for good and bad. But when my xbf who marries someone else started to label me, and set a criteria in choosing his love partner, I started to feel is this what most men do?

I felt so disgusted and annoyed when people started to label other people. For exmaple, Che Polan put a label on girls who had experience in love before him is not good enough to be his wedded wife. So he chose to marry someone who had not had any experience in love. Meaning NO XBF. This is so unfair cuz he is in a relationship like thousand of times and fuck around and yet still he wants to marry someone who had zero experience in love? I wonder if one day, she will stray and wants another experience with other guy.. i wonder and just wondering..and its crazy..

Anyway, when we put a certain standard in life to someone, do we really think that we are good enough to other people? what we want to achieve when we label people? satisfaction? can be.. or it is just to potray a perfect family photo?

For me, it is unfair. Most men do label girls. Nak macam tu, macam ni.. kalau boleh nak bakal isteri yang pakai tudung, tak pernah bercinta, baik, dara, dan sebaik-baiknye.. tapi belakang dia la yang shytan, fuck around, minum arak, bersuke ria, broke other girls heart and take girl for a joyride..how bad men is, he will still wants a good wife.

Do they think before they label? Probably NOT. they just label. Cuz if they look through their entire fucking life, they will sit and wonder "am I deserve this much label when my own label is so fucked up?" NO they just don't sit and wonder. Fine!

I have learned so much post breakup from my x and few guys too.. and yes,they do LABEL and I got rejected. One of the reason I am too beautiful (benda ni betul2 ke, ke nak ckp I am FAT) haha.. anyway, what's wrong if I am beautiful bukan suatu bonuskah? hihi.. fine, fine.. being too caring, too beautiful and too nice were not good enough for you, so how good is so good enough?

You had me, take me for a test drive and then use me again and again and again until the day I discovered you are getting married, and all this thing came after; labels, standard, criteria to create a perfect family photo.. I guess, this is too much! how do you know, if you get someone who had experience will not make you happy and satisfied per say? you have been happy and happier since I came into ur life! brings you a new perspective how you outlook ur life. werent that enough? and how do you know the person who doesnt has any experience will make you happy.

You'll breed the person in you, trust me..

Bukan semua benda yang kita suke, terbaik buat kita. dan bukan semua benda yang kita benci buruk buat kita.. cuma perlu muhasabah diri. Rate yourself and you'll realised you should be fair to yourself and others.

When labelling became so intensed, I guess I want to label also. Kalau lelaki boleh label, aku pon boleh.. Now, new outlook on life, in order to be happy you should label (cuz most guys are happy when they got what they label no matter how much they damaged other people's life)

I want a relationship that are Committed, Exclusive and Monogamous (sound familiar? yes,, it is from Kimora Lee Simmons quote to her husband Djamon Hounsu).

Right.. in order for standard, I want someone who is tall, dark/fair and handsome and ......(i don't want to disclose) (cuz I want to keep it exclusively to myself to know and to all of you not bother to find out).. If I met the unnecessary people, out of my league and standard,sorry babe, you go find someone else..

Kali ni, I will be someone yang sgt2 particular dan memilih.. (sebelum ni org selalu ckp I memilih, tp sebenarnya I tak memilih pon.. Bila I tak memilih, relationship itu tidak berjaya pula)..

So I set my own criteria, standard and label too.

You LABEL me, I'll LABEL you! (unforgiven lyric, Metallica)